I won't be adding anyone who doesn't comment here first (or if we met from a friending meme or in a community and you asked to add there, you don't need to comment here. So long as I know you're adding me..)
selectively adding means I'm not really looking for new friends at the moment, but if you are really awesome, or we have lots of common interests, or you saw me in a friends journal (or one of my friends to you I was awesome? you never know), I will probably add you.
If you want to stalk me anonymously, feel free to watch ps_tumblr
Edited 05/03/09 - did a friends cut, no hard feelings.